DEATH

-Unpredictable 

It is not something that you can decide ..

Not something to be scared of..

Until we do find that solution to death-and how appealing it is to think about your bodily presence in this world being something other than your physical body

It might be appropriate to consider how we face the reality of death.

SONIKA ASHOK

I WISH!

                                                                                                                                                                    I guess some of us just grew up too soon .We saw things early that shook us than we know.

Too heavy ,too hard .

When the pain was unbearable,he use to give her anesthesia ,

she still regrets that kiss .

So they smiled for one last time and believed that they will meet again .

I know you aren’t meant to understand her entirely and repairing only would break her heart.

Let her know who she is exactly , it’s her time !


SONIKA ASHOK

EXIST?

Not too long enough to laugh with him

 “Say not in grief ‘he is no more ‘but in thankfulness that he was .Today here i stand in front of the world as the daughter of the strongest dad, Where he used to be. 

There is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime and falling in at night. I miss you like hell.

 “No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.”

I miss you ♥️

SONIKA ASHOK

GET WHY?

It took me a long time to realize that not everything in life is meant to be a beautiful story.

Not every person we feel something deep and moving with is meant to make a home within us this is meant to be forever.

Sometimes , people come into our lives to teach us how to love , and sometimes ; people come to teach us how not to love.How not to settle , how not to shrink ourselves ever again .Yes , sometimes people leave – but that okay because their lessons always stay , and that is what matters .

That is what remains! 

SONIKA ASHOK

EVERYSECOND

Childhood pranks have turned serious murmerings

Dreams are shattered ...

Life entered into a word of silence …

Loneliness is the only partner…

The wisher and lessons turned into lifeless statues …

Bright moonlight nights have turned into dark nights…

Raging fire has been doused…

Do you even think?

Beckoning you to come…

Im trapped into a web of difficulties …

Who am I to tell you?

 SONIKA ASHOK

THE TRUTH OF REJECTION

we're all afraid of rejection🙅

So, she didn’t want you

You did not get that job, Or that test score wasn’t what you hoped for.

When we get rejected, we take the blame.

We start picking tirelessly at every flaw and imperfection that we have within to try and explain why it occurred. But sometimes rejection is a gift in disguise, the best reality check we could have hoped for.

The truth is rejection is scary.🚫

But what we should really be afraid of is not going after what want in life. Because the only thing scarier than rejection is REGRET.

Rejection is teaching us that we need to be patient, work harder, and build the courage it takes to confront frightening situations that stand in our way.

It’s pushing ourselves to the point where we need to improve ourselves so that we become stronger in the future.

So, if u have been rejected, may be its time you embraced it is an opportunity to DEVELOP, SURPUSS , and CONTINUE MOVING FORWARD NO MATTER WHAT.

So stop feeling sorry for yourself and playing the victim.Stop blaming yourself for everything you could have done better.

Rejection does not dictate your worth.

It is simply life telling you that you could do more.

You have room to grow and improve. And you are far more than any supposed value that someone else can assign to you.

Why do you have to wait for someone not to reject you?

When many in this world dream about the life your living today so ,why to wait till someone agrees you to be a part of them or it?

“Don’t have to ask anyone to stay with you, when people are worth enough to be with you they will”

Start living for yourself …

The day you grow up will be the day you actually realize the purpose of living life.It is up to you to take responsibility for your future and keep taking the risks that make you feel alive- even if it means facing your worst fear.

I think it’s time we all started waking up to all the ways in which we’ve been rejecting ourselves.

Because the only person who has the power to never reject you, is YOU.

SONIKA ASHOK

BEFORE YOU WASTE TIME

When asked “what’s the biggest mistake in your life? I would tell the biggest mistake is you think you have time” time is free but it’s priceless.

You can’t own it but u can use it. You can’t keep it but u can spend it. And once its lost u can never get it back. The average person lives 70.8 years, we spend 28 years of our life sleeping😴.

That’s almost a third of our life but 30% of us struggle to sleep well. We spend 8.5 years of our life working but over 50% are those who want to leave their current job.

Time is more valuable than money💸.

You can get more money but u can never ever get more time.

We spend 8 years on TV📺 and social media. We spend 3 years doing chores.

We spend 3 years eating and drinking🍹.

We spend 3.5 years in education📚, 2.5 years shopping, 2.5 years grooming. We spend 1.5 years in child care. We spend 1.3 years commuting. That leaves us with 9 years.

How will we spend that time?

Steve jobs said “your time is limited don’t waste it living someone else’s life”

So there is good news and there’s ad news.

The bad news is time flies; the good news is you’re the piolet.

Imagine you wake up every day with 86 400 rupee in your bank account and at the end of the night it’s all gone whether u spent it or not.

And then the next day you get another 86 400 rupee

What will we do with it?

Every day 86 400 seconds are deposited in to your life account.at the end of the day once they’re all used up you get a new 86 400 seconds. We would never waste it if it was money, so why do we waste it when it comes to time? Those seconds are so much more powerful than rupee because you can always make more money, you can’t always make more time.

To realize the value of one year ask a student who failed a grade.

To realize the value of one month ask the mother who lost her child in the final month.

To realize the value of 1 week ask the editor of an online magazine.

To realize the value of 1 hour ask the couple who’s in a long distance relationship.

To realize the value of a min ask the person who missed a train or plane.

To realize the value of 1 second ask the person who just missed an accident.

To realize the value of millisecond ask the person who just came 2^nd at the Olympics

We think that its people who waste our time but it’s really us who is giving them permission to do that.

Don’t let someone be a priority when all you are to them is an option.

Some of use loses the people most important to us because we don’t value their time. Some of us don’t recognize how important someone🕴 is to us until they’re gone. There is voice in us

The voice that holds us back,

The voice that makes us lazy,

The voice that makes us complacent,

The voice that restricts us from our potentials,

Guess which one wins🍷?

The one that we listen to the most.

The one that we feed.

The one that we amplify.

It is our choice of how we use our time🕐.

And as William Shakespeare said “time is very slow for those who want, very fast for those who are scared, very long for those who are sad, and very short for those who celebrate but for those who love💗, time is eternal”.