Monday, 12 August 2019

GET WHY?



It took me a long time to realize that not everything in life is meant to be a beautiful story.
Not every person we feel something deep and moving with is meant to make a home within us this is meant to be forever.
Sometimes , people come into our lives to teach us how to love , and sometimes ; people come to teach us how not to love.How not to settle , how not to shrink ourselves ever again .Yes , sometimes people leave – but that okay because their lessons always stay , and that is what matters .
That is what remains! 

SONIKA ASHOK

EVERYSECOND



Childhood pranks have turned serious murmerings
Dreams are shattered ...
Life entered into a word of silence …
Loneliness is the only partner…
The wisher and lessons turned into lifeless statues …
Bright moonlight nights have turned into dark nights…
Raging fire has been doused…
Do you even think?
Beckoning you to come…
Im trapped into a web of difficulties …
Who am I to tell you?

 SONIKA ASHOK


Tuesday, 29 January 2019

THE TRUTH OF REJECTION



we're all afraid of rejection🙅
So, she didn’t want you
You did not get that job, Or that test score wasn’t what you hoped for.
When we get rejected, we take the blame.
We start picking tirelessly at every flaw and imperfection that we have within to try and explain why it occurred. But sometimes rejection is a gift in disguise, the best reality check we could have hoped for.
The truth is rejection is scary.🚫
But what we should really be afraid of is not going after what want in life. Because the only thing scarier than rejection is REGRET.
Rejection is teaching us that we need to be patient, work harder, and build the courage it takes to confront frightening situations that stand in our way.
It’s pushing ourselves to the point where we need to improve ourselves so that we become stronger in the future.
So, if u have been rejected, may be its time you embraced it is an opportunity to DEVELOP, SURPUSS , and CONTINUE MOVING FORWARD NO MATTER WHAT.
So stop feeling sorry for yourself and playing the victim.Stop blaming yourself for everything you could have done better.
Rejection does not dictate your worth.
It is simply life telling you that you could do more.
You have room to grow and improve. And you are far more than any supposed value that someone else can assign to you.
Why do you have to wait for someone not to reject you?
When many in this world dream about the life your living today so ,why to wait till someone agrees you to be a part of them or it?
“Don’t have to ask anyone to stay with you, when people are worth enough to be with you they will”
Start living for yourself …
The day you grow up will be the day you actually realize the purpose of living life.It is up to you to take responsibility for your future and keep taking the risks that make you feel alive- even if it means facing your worst fear.
I think it’s time we all started waking up to all the ways in which we’ve been rejecting ourselves.

Because the only person who has the power to never reject you, is YOU.


SONIKA ASHOK

Thursday, 31 May 2018

BEFORE YOU WASTE TIME





When asked “what’s the biggest mistake in your life? I would tell the biggest mistake is you think you have time” time is free but it’s priceless.
You can’t own it but u can use it. You can’t keep it but u can spend it. And once its lost u can never get it back. The average person lives 70.8 years, we spend 28 years of our life sleeping😴.
That’s almost a third of our life but 30% of us struggle to sleep well. We spend 8.5 years of our life working but over 50% are those who want to leave their current job.
Time is more valuable than money💸.
You can get more money but u can never ever get more time.
We spend 8 years on TV📺 and social media. We spend 3 years doing chores.
We spend 3 years eating and drinking🍹.
We spend 3.5 years in education📚, 2.5 years shopping, 2.5 years grooming. We spend 1.5 years in child care. We spend 1.3 years commuting. That leaves us with 9 years.
How will we spend that time?
Steve jobs said “your time is limited don’t waste it living someone else’s life”
So there is good news and there’s ad news.
The bad news is time flies; the good news is you’re the piolet.
Imagine you wake up every day with 86 400 rupee in your bank account and at the end of the night it’s all gone whether u spent it or not.
And then the next day you get another 86 400 rupee
What will we do with it?
Every day 86 400 seconds are deposited in to your life account.at the end of the day once they’re all used up you get a new 86 400 seconds. We would never waste it if it was money, so why do we waste it when it comes to time? Those seconds are so much more powerful than rupee because you can always make more money, you can’t always make more time.
To realize the value of one year ask a student who failed a grade.
To realize the value of one month ask the mother who lost her child in the final month.
To realize the value of 1 week ask the editor of an online magazine.
To realize the value of 1 hour ask the couple who’s in a long distance relationship.
To realize the value of a min ask the person who missed a train or plane.
To realize the value of 1 second ask the person who just missed an accident.
To realize the value of millisecond ask the person who just came 2nd at the Olympics
We think that its people who waste our time but it’s really us who is giving them permission to do that.
Don’t let someone be a priority when all you are to them is an option.
Some of use loses the people most important to us because we don’t value their time. Some of us don’t recognize how important someone🕴 is to us until they’re gone. There is voice in us
The voice that holds us back,
The voice that makes us lazy,
The voice that makes us complacent,
The voice that restricts us from our potentials,
Guess which one wins🍷?
The one that we listen to the most.
The one that we feed.
The one that we amplify.
It is our choice of how we use our time🕐.

And as William Shakespeare said “time is very slow for those who want, very fast for those who are scared, very long for those who are sad, and very short for those who celebrate but for those who love💗, time is eternal”.

Thursday, 22 February 2018

AFORE WE





Once we me and you, Now we ohh okay…
Why can’t thick chums👧 be the same throughout lifetime…?
Why do we have to change for the sake of folks…?
Why should we break our trust within us …?
This started all the unfairly looks between us...
Weird fights…Wake up smiles😇 turn to distracting epochs…
Dirty talks changed to formal confer…
Late night wishes changes to 10 o’clock ⓒsnooze time…
Sharing perfumes turns up to the identification of kinds…
Shampoo bottles🍶 distinguish the time added path…
A loud screaming… I see u playing⏳ ...And just imagine if I were like you …
Things would have gone worse and to the crests…
Can't replace love and place for someone else ...because all are not the same...


#ACHY
Sonika Ashok💛







Sunday, 11 February 2018

COMPANION





She is the most influential person in my life.
Who has ensured that if I shoot to the moon🌙, I don’t get caught up by staring at the stars★?
I always had someone to look up to, A shoulder to cry on, someone whom I could ask for advice without any hesitation.
I love her the most; she means the world to me.
She is my faithful guide!
In fact my role model!
Her hope n determination towards work are something that I can hope to have my self-one day.
My mother👩 has always been a greatest supporter to me.
She would be the recognition of my talents…
She handled me and my lies…
She is who smiles😊 in her pain to see me raise; she fills brightness in my dull…
She more over talks to me like a friend, she understands all of my situations as a friend does.
She is never depended on anyone and expects same for me too…
Shares everything with me all the time though I am young👶…
She never scolds or hits me from my standards of 7th, and that was only because of hope on me that I don’t repeat it again…
She will always fight with me for all silly thing #likeakid
She never wanted me always to go by her words or follow whatever she tells, because she always wanted me to be independent…
She is hard working not hardly working…
Thank her for so much of believe in me and for the freedom she has given to me…
I am a strong girl because strong women raised me…
I would proudly tell she is a successful women...
#RESPECTEDYOUMAMMA❤

#love




Sunday, 4 February 2018

WORTHY OF YOU





You held my hand
When I was small👶
You caught me when I fell,
You’re the hero of my childhood🚸,
And years later as well...

Every time I think of you
I am still filled with pride💖
Though ill need you always
I know you’re by my side...

Your life was a blessing,
You’re memory is a treasure,
You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure…

For all the times that I have been smiling😆, crying😢, won, inspiring the only reason is you.
You were the one who would make things faultless.
My soul,
My guide,
My identity,
My escort.
The captain of family 👪...
Things never dream to get worse in your presence.
The perfect guide whom I would refer.
A man who fought against the crowd’s talk🝰.
It will not take a second to ignore …but u have never did that to me even though my fault is there.
Never stayed without me for a night 🌃.
Never stopped caring for me.
Left everything to my own choice…
The most precious gift that u have ever given to me is ..YOU BELIEVED IN ME!!
You are my superhero❤❤!

SONIKA ASHOK

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